4 Ethical Sexual Questions

Today I stumbled upon this article Let’s talk about sex: Four ethical questions (http://www.usatodayeducate.com/staging/index.php/ccp/lets-talk-about-sex) and there were 4 questions that I have decided to answer in my blog.
1. What do I want sex to mean?
Sex to me isn't just a physical pleasure of a matter a minutes. I won't lie at first it only meant just that but later I wanted meaning. I thank God I didn't have to abuse of it before I realized that I want sex to have meaning and not just a quick workout. What I want out of sex is to share a connection with the person who I plan to engage in it with and God forbid there is an outcome from having sex (pregnancy) I don't want to regret the person that I had sex with. I think a relationship is very important and with out one I don't plan to have sex.


2. Do my partner and I both understand sex the same way?
I think it is important that sex overall should be understood the same way by both partners. Not everyday will it be passionately with the extras on the side but most the time it should hold the same meaning to both partners. Both should be on the same page in the same book ;)


3. Does the sex show respect for me and my partner?
Meaningless sex sux 100% and when you are forced to do things that you really don't want to is meaningless if both partners aren't happy. Sometimes couples need to compromise but ultimately if you are completely grossed out and do not want to do a certain sexual act it shouldn't be forced upon the person.


4. Am I choosing to have sex or am I letting alcohol make the decision for me?
I have never had sex under the influence personally so I can say this question doesn't pertain to me. I hope to never have sex under the influence. I like to be in control of situations and I know that serious things can occur once you let alcohol take control.


This is a little insyder on how I feel about sex. Overall I don't want sex until I have a boyfriend. There is alot of responsibility behind sex and I need some one who cares for me just as much as I care for them.

G.O.A.L.S

Last semester was a very successful semester in my college life. I got a lot accomplished in a short amount of time but this time around I want to do more. I have learned that in life you live for one person and that is YOU yourself. 2012 for me is all about maximizing the moment. The moment for me is educational. This is one of the most important semesters of my life and in many others that plan to apply to med school. This semester defines the "I am in this to win this" phrase. It is all or nothing from here and I will be damned if I let it slip from my hands.

Many wish I would. This is where I prove them wrong and show them that I will accomplish it. These are my goals up above and in the somewhat order that I will complete them. I don't do new years resolutions since every semester seems like a new year to me. I just hope and pray that I can do this and give it my all. I have nothing to lose since I am entering empty handed but I have a WHOLE LOT TO GAIN once I accomplish it all.

I want the people that I truly love and care about to know that I appreciate their love and support and that we are in this together. If people thought I was anti-social I am about to turn this up to the next level. MAY THE RACE BEGIN AND THE BEST STUDENT WIN. I want a 44-45 on my MCAT and God willing I will do this. I need my friends to be patient with me and to understand if I ignore them it is not because I chose to it is because I have to.

I haven't decided yet if I will delete my only social network :TWITTER but in a few days we shall see.

READY ->SET ->GO

Success and The Ones that are Close to You.

I wish all my family members all the success in the world.
I try to help them go foward and make something of their life.
It bugs me when they don't want to better themselves.
It bugs me that they won't be happy for my success and
would rather rejoice in my misery.